To be into a good relationship ... most certainly the couple needs to have a good relationship between their souls ... but also their egos.
The soul needs to ... love.
The ego needs to understand their meaning into this world as a couple ... but also take care of all the aspects so that they can be always into the best circumstances together.
But most of all ... respect each other.
Today .... I believe that without love and respect it will never be ... that perfect case scenario.
And i saw many couples loving each other .... but unfortunately one of the partners was not respectful ... and also couples respecting each other so much .... but it was so, so obvious that love didn't existed.
So ... being together ... was not what they really needed ... for real.
But ... a weird fact is that i saw many, many couples loving and respecting each other .... but randomly hating or disrespecting each other.
And ... little ... little ... destroying the beauty of their connection.
The final question ... remains ... why the hell ... 2 lovers would have moments when they experience hate ... and if respect exists .... why there are still moments of disrespect?!
And why it is randomly happening?!
Also ... why can't those moments stop being generated?!
I wanted to say ... totally eliminated... but i think the best is to say ... stoped being generated.
I analyse my own past .... and knowing that I've acted as an idiot in all my love relationships.... I understand that i could not control myself.
I lived ... being dominated by duality.
I loved ... but hated my partners for that or that .... or that ... or that.
And the moment when i hated ... next second i've became disrespectful.
Fortunately ... i was tolerated many times ... but .... into the end the hate and disrespect becoming dominant ... all was ruined.
I hated and been disrespectful ... but also hated to endure the hate and the disrespect of the partner.
... in continuous form.
I did that ... in one relationship.
... then into another.
And ... the next one ....
Actually ... in all the experiences i've had.
I've considered it ... funny how idiot or how unlucky i could be.
But ... somehow ... into one point I've realised that i didn't know to practice... forgiveness.
There were moments when i had to practice the forgiveness in its absolute form .... but i could not do it.
My ego was too offended ... and i had to protest .... randomly attacking the ego of my partner.
I could simple decide to suppress my angriness ... and maybe allow to my soul to dominate the energy of the love story.
But ... I couldn't.
So ... i've always had to see this weird balance between love and hate ... ending up ... acting disrespectfully.
My ego ... and her ego ... ruined all.
Forgiveness was the key ... but we could not practice that.love letters
The paid price was huge ... and i had to start a new relationship ... and another one ... and another one ....
Like many others.
I did not realised that the meaning of forgiveness was to reset energies ... and disconnect from any type of negativity which into the end had actually a bad impact on the connection.
So ... I preferred to fail.
... instead of being aware at the energy of the couple ... i've totally disconnected ... and restarted my whole life.
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